Initiative in a chat
A chat-roulette is the best place to meet single people who want to find new friends, communicate with people from other countries and find a soulmate. However, even with such easy communication, it is recommended to adhere to unspoken rules.
How to start a conversation?
In the modern world, especially in the Internet, the initiative can come not only from a man, but also from a girl. Ladies can start a dialogue. Start with a greeting, ask how the person is doing, whether he is feeling well. After that, ask the interlocutor to tell a little about himself, his interests and hobbies. Once you know the information you need, it will be easier to ask related questions. Make sure the interlocutor answers in detail and asks you something as well.
How often should you take the initiative?
For the first time, it is allowed to write or start a conversation with an unlimited number of people. However, after this, make sure that the initiative is mutual. If you always write first, most likely, the person you are talking to does not want to talk to you.
What original questions should I ask?
If you are used to taking the initiative, try not to ask trivial questions. Ask the girl what her favorite color and favorite dish is, how often she goes to the cinema, what she loves the most in men, what books she prefers. All this will help to attract the attention of the interlocutor and lead an interesting, detailed conversation.
Who should take a real date initiative?
By tradition, this is the privilege of men. However, if a girl communicates with a guy and sees that he is clearly interested in her, but for some reason hesitates to invite her to a real date, she can do it herself. It is enough to invite once to understand whether the interlocutor expects from your relationship.
Sometimes a date is postponed for objective reasons (illness or work). There is nothing reprehensible in this, however, try to be patient and wait until the proposal comes from your interlocutor. Otherwise, you will look intrusive. Thus, the initial initiative in a chat-roulette can come from one person, but later you should understand that the person you are talking to is also interested in communicating with you. Only in this case the dialogue will turn out to be really interesting, and you will have a true friend or partner. Thanks to the chat-roulette you can develop communication skills.